May 20, 2009

Now? NOW I’m starting to get pissed.

Posted in *cringe*, Darth Vaguer, The Angry, The Just a Little Sad, The WTF at 9:12 am by Dagny Taggart

And also, I’m confused, because it just doesn’t make sense.  It’s not logical.

When someone tries to fsck with your friends, uses you to do it, and then demonstrates a clear lack of regard for your feelings, as well?  It’s time to stop believing a word out of that person’s mouth and recognize them for the selfish manipulator that they are.  I don’t care how many mitigating circumstances there are – after behavior on that scale of screwy, you cut out the toxic and move on with your life.  You do so for your benefit, and you do it for the benefit of the friends who were hurt, because when you’re friends with someone, you get pissed at people who deliberately fsck with them.

That’s an essential component of loyalty, in my book.

When you decide to forgive the slights against you, that’s one thing.  When you decide to forgive everything, and maintain a friendship with the manipulator, it shows a clear lack of regard for the people who were hurt, and your relationships with them.

And then your friends are left to wonder what the fsck is going on in your head.

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2 Comments »

  1. Velvet said,

    Well, and the inevitable is true – eventually the manipulator will turn on you and do the same.

    When can we discuss the Jersey Housewives?

  2. Too true. As for as RHoNJ, soon. Very, very soon.


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